Relationship sense~ as easy as one plus one

Relationship sense~ as easy as one plus one
  by DBLorgan

Relationships and senses how does one connect with the other ?
It is one experience in this realm that can be comforting or one of contemplation.
My choice would be to have it comforting.
I think the best way to begin this is to discuss the senses.
We have five and the six is one of intuition dealing with the things that are less visible to the human eyes yet we know it does exist.
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Which ones are important for a “relationship?”
Hmm now your thinking.. Let’s see
My sight.. Yes that would be a good start.. So wait, let’s first decide which relationship we are talking about?
Ohh, stop Diane your saying.. You are always thinking to much.
I know and I love it.
Which one?
A parent to child
A life partner
I think if we just focus on these it will actually keep us pretty occupied. What do you think?
Parent to child relationship is your first you experience in this realm.
The first sense that is quickened is sound and touch. You hear the baby’s voice and they hear yours simultaneously with your touch.
These are the “FIRST”
Well how am I doing here?
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I think I would like to keep this simple.
Sometimes we make things so complicated in life.
It is time to change the story...
All relationships
Are in need of
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Touch
Hearing
The other senses come into factors as well but these are the top two
Can you imagine having a baby and never touching it?
Or never sharing a soft word with it..
Can you imagine having a relationship with your partner and never touching them or sharing words of love with the other?
If these two simple ingredients are missing the results will be very obvious.

Your choice

Author DBLorgan exerpt: Row Row Row your boat...with a new glimmer

Row Row Row "Your boat"....by DBLorgan

Exerpt coming "In the Eye of the Beholder"

Such an easy to song to sing. We learned it when we were little. Now as adults you can look back on the little blocks we thought were insignificant and see hmm there was something to it?

Downstream or up…??

What is easier.. Well come to a raging river and make that choice.

If you put your boat in the water and think up… what will happen?.. Hard paddling, strength above and beyond what you felt was going to be a nice ride.. Such is life if you select this.

We are taught by many life is a struggle, who taught “them” this tidbit of knowledge so that it is passed on from generation to generation? It is just accepted.. unless, unless  someone comes along and says..

“Hey why are you going upstream? It is easier to go down”

Then you say .. “there is a place upstream that I want to see.”

“Well why you put your boat here then”

Wouldn’t it have been better to put your boat where it was and then experience it?  Then take your experience with you and continue down the stream.

“Hmm , I never thought of it that way.”

“Change your thought change your manifestation”

“I see that!’

Now you get in the boat.. Ahh it tis going to be a nice day

I have my boat I have my oars.. Now what?

Your choice…. Choose your direction choose your elements you’re going to proceed with and let go of the shoreline.. Push out feel the water give you excitement by the speed of it or just a gentle flow.

You see it is your river of life as well.. The more thoughts into a topic the more the river flows.  As it gets stronger and stronger you become more and more confident. This is wonderful I see now where I am going.

Ease and flow.. now there is one more revelation that I am inclined to touch on just a bit..

Row Row Row "your boat".... the key is “YOUR” boat.. Don’t try to control someone else’s boat.. 

YOU can guide with words but they must learn how to paddle with BOTH OARS.. HA...one oar means... well you know.. (smiling here)

   Namaste DB

True teacher

A good teacher allows the student to see all the teacher has 

~ is within them as well ~ 

The teacher just enlightens and quickens the seed of who you 

"Truly are" 

and what your capable of has nothing to do with another's acceptance nor acknowledgment... 

Namaste 

DBLorgan

Touching lives is what I love. One heart at a time ..With the gifts I have been given

Being a wedding officiant has just added so much excitement to my life.

I am creating ceremonies to have two in love share their words of wonderment and making promises to stand by each others side. Forever and a day.

My book The Memory Barrel continues to float through the world. Words shared to me from readers of their love of the book. It allowing them guidance and understanding and hope. I sigh thinking.. "Thank you"

Now being the voice that says I now pronounce you husband and wife. Or I now pronounce you partners in life.. on and on

Children, animals, friends and family are all welcome at my weddings. I will surround this couple with so much magic their hearts will sing..

As mine does being with them

Storms pass .. they always do ~ Namaste DBLorgan

All is well..........breathe through the storms and imagine another time of joy if you can, they will pass! All storms do. They move by quicker if you think of something else that brings you peace. Then they wont consume you as they did in the moment it began. It passes.......I promise Namaste DBLorgan

 

"Aging well" .. first to admit you are is the beginning ..

I just watched this very very informative DVD. I highly recommend this for all who are aging!! haha.. not you? Um hummm 

 Maybe you just need to age gracefully and admit it is alright to age. Some people consider it an honor and look at the aged as gems in their life. Embrace it and love it.. I am~ 

This year I will be 60, and aging well.. 

Dr. Andrew Weil's Healthy Aging

Apex Reviews: Thanks for joining us for this interview, D.B. We're looking forward to sharing more about your book with our readers.

Official Apex Reviews Interview: D.B. Lorgan (The Memory Barrel)
Apex Reviews: Thanks for joining us for this interview, D.B. We're looking forward to sharing more about your book with our readers.
What inspired you to craft this quite touching tale of loss and redemption?

 D.B. Lorgan: I never knew I was even capable of writing. I was at the time walking through some transitional moments in my life due to a very sad divorce. Watching and wondering how I would make it to the next moment knowing I had to since my children were watching and my family to my success and my ability to continue with life.

We all go through these moments one time or another. I started to journal after watching Oprah and hearing her words that it would allow me to see things clearer. Writing it down released the moment and would allow you to examine it outside of yourself.. Soo I did. As I was doing this I realized I wanted to create moments of others as well in my story transitioning it to a story of life, survival and finding the good in all that we walk through. It took me eight years to complete The Memory Barrel...I started as a journaler and ended as an author.

Changing the story so to speak and looking at life with a different set of eyes.

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SIGNS YOUR GIVEN

DO YOU NOTICE THE LITTLE SIGNS YOUR GIVEN?

We just do them and never get it!
We all go to bed at night.
You step back from the world and close your eyes,
Then go to a place of "rest and peace" Signs we are given signs and just overlook them.
So what does this show Diane?
It means when moments "exhaust you" then step back from them close your eyes and envision some moment that you were joyful in.
Hold it for awhile don't think of the problem."
As time moves on it won’t be as overwhelming
"You will see solutions clearer " Because your not totally focused on the problem
Remember the old saying
“Things will look better in the morning” ~DBLorgan

When you least expect it.... Life surprises you

I remember listening to Enya years ago as I was taking a walk in the hills of Alfred NY.. suddenly my batteries died. What? I thought..I love to listen to music when I walk. Then as I dropped my head set I was shared another sound..One I had never heard before..what was it? Well I put the segment in my next book
In the Eye of the Beholder.. you will love it. DBLorgan

THERE IS AN AWAKENING HAPPENING........OPEN YOUR EYES SO YOU CAN SEE

Open your eyes it is time to wake up.. be aware of what is around you..

You brought it.

Believe it and you will see it.

 Yet what do you believe? 

Look around you.

That is what you believe.

Maybe it is time to change the story. DBLorgan