Family gatherings..
Try to find something to talk about other than politics or controversial topics.
I know things seem to be in an upheaval, but truly it will fine. There is always in my lifetime been political controversy.
Talk of things you have learned and love.
Don't try to convert someone to your way of life. We all are not the same, how boring if we were..
Talk of places you would enjoy visiting of have visited.
Talk of childhood memories and laugh together remembering them.
A good inspiring book?
Instead of sitting there trying to figure this or that. Play a game together. I found one with putting prizes in a huge saran wrap ball. Toss the dice and pairs gets to unwind until the next player gets pairs.
JUST BE HAPPY TOGETHER.. YOUR FAMILY